No one likes me anymore

[Thecoolwriter]

Yeah, what if it doesn't?

[Tyler]

You should really call someone too, especially if you don't like face-to-face discussions (guidance counselors, parents, etc). I don't know about where you live, but there are many resources available around here via toll-free hotlines (Allegheny County Mental Health Association; Allegheny County Office of Behavioral Health; Allegheny County Office of Children, Youth and Families; Allegheny County Office of Mental Retardation/Developmental Disabilities; Allegheny-East Suburban MH/MR; Pittsburgh MHA; and many more). My point is, there are tons of resources available out there should you choose to start getting help over the phone (look at all the helpful offices I found just through Google!). Anything you say is confidential.

One things clear here, however: you need to talk to someone.

[LFMusicRocks]

Hmmm....that'll be tough, but I think that's a fair idea.

[lfmusiclover]

You know, I sympathize with you Krishnan. I really do. But coming here and starting this thread was not the thing to do. And then to ask who here hates you? Not the kind of thing you want to ask. Take the advice of Tyler and the others.

[LFMusicRocks]

Sir, I am willing to take his advice. But still, this is something I'm willing to do!

[CriminalCola]

Hi Krishnan - Sorry to hear you are feeling down lately.

I would like to tell you that you shouldn't get so upset about the people who hate you. I'm sure that the people who you think hate you don't really hate you, maybe they are having their own problems and react harshly or mean to you, but underneath they really appreciate your optimistic approach to being friends.

You have a lot of people who like you too. Your friend Krystal from school, your parents, myself, and I am sure a lot of folks from the TWC Fan community and from school also like you as well. You excel in school, and make wonderful grades, so I am sure your teachers appreciate having you in class too.

So when you are thinking of the people who "hate" you, just think of all the people who like you, and do not associate with those individuals who make you feel unwanted. 

[kpetree10]

LFMusicRocks: I have felt the exact same way that you do. I have have thoughts of suicide. Life can be really rough sometimes, I am 18 years old and have never even dated anyone so that is usually the reason my my troubles.

My answer to your problem is to just do your best to ride it out, think about the people who care about you, at the moment you may think that they don't exist but they are there! Usually venting your thoughts can help as well, if you need somebody to talk to you can PM me, I have been in your shoes and I know how it feels to be down like this.

[lfmusiclover]

Wow, I must be mentally strong. I'm 23 and have never dated a single girl (though I have had plenty of lady friends), and I've never thought of suicide.

What's meant to be will happen my friends. There's someone out there for everyone, I don't care who you are or how you look. Making friends is a breeze too. I was never a terribly popular or cute kid, but I was always surrounded by friends. We're all still friends to this day. And you know why? Because we became friends to begin with because we liked each other for WHO we were, not for how we looked, how cool we were, or what we had.

I think the first thing you need to do is take a good look in the mirror and see your self for all the things you are. You need to tell yourself that you ARE good enough. I'm sure you've got friends. Think back on how you made friends with those people. Did you have something in common? Maybe you and your friends are of the same race or religion. Or maybe you share similar hobbies or interests. Make friends with others that share those traits.

As for girls...that is a bit more complicated. Again, a good place to start might be girls of similar race or religion. Image is very important to girls. You've got to carry yourself with confidence. Keep yourself looking clean and freshly groomed every day. Wear nice clothes. If your a little heavy, lose a few pounds. It can be done. Excuses like I can't lose weight, or I've tried every diet there is won't work.  Because their just that. Excuses and put offs. If you want to make your life better you need to take a proactive roll in it. Your not a genie. You can't fold your arms, blink, and change everything.

I want to close this by saying that life isn't always a bowl of cherries. Life is full of ups and downs. You can't let yourself get down when times aren't good. Things will rebound and turn around.

[lfmusiclover]

To prove my point...I just back in from going to get some lunch. While at the restaurant the cashier (who was female BTW) flirted with me, with little or no provocation from me. After she started the flirting we teased each other, had a good laugh, and I went on my way.

So Krishnan, its not difficult at all, no matter who you are.

[lfmusiclover]

This is exactly what Krishnan doesn't need. He doesn't need to read everybody else's sob stories.

[Squizz]

I'll delete it then.

[lfmusiclover]

I wasn't singling you out. You just happen to be one of those people. 

[Localonthe8s]

I feel like this often too...but not thoughts of suicide.

[Mike M]

Yeah, I've had similar trouble a few years back but I've never gotten that far where I would post a thread like this here or commit suicide.

[Tyler]

Why is it that it seems so many TWC fans are so emotionally disturbed?